Are you and your spouse really competitive? Does it somethings get in the way of your relationship? It is important to harness your competitive side and express it in a healthy way.
Normally in a relationship it is not good to keep score. Keeping score in a relationship can damage it. You are not against the other person, you are trying to work with them to have a healthy relationship. If you are keeping score, you may be more focused on what they have or haven’t done, that you are not present in the relationship.
A fun date is bowling. It can be during the day or at night and possibly later in the night during a cosmic bowl night for a fun time. Play against each other and keep score. Have the “winner” do something for the “loser”, opposed to the loser doing something for the winner. By keeping score in the game it is reinforcing where it is positive to be competitive and not in the relationship.
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